Obsessed?
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tonyafox
Master Midnite's blonde bitch
Relax.
This is a perfectly normal feeling and it's a reflection of IR evolution.
You have two choices basically, either encourage and support her in the lifestyle she deserves or deny her and put off the enevitable, which is her going Black without you.
You can either be a participant in the fun or end up alone . . . . your call.
Good luck with whatever road you choose.
This is a perfectly normal feeling and it's a reflection of IR evolution.
You have two choices basically, either encourage and support her in the lifestyle she deserves or deny her and put off the enevitable, which is her going Black without you.
You can either be a participant in the fun or end up alone . . . . your call.
Good luck with whatever road you choose.
dunacouple
Fun loving couple
Heath6699 said:
As a women I can only tell you that it's hard for a women to see things in the perspective you see it. Don't listen to the horny dudes as you ONLY advisory.
Do you want your women to think your becoming a submissive man, maybe even bi sexual or gay. Or do you want her to see you as a men who just likes his wife to get fucked by big black men. Because, the latter implies the former for most women.
Just watch porn with her, put on IR and talk about it. Keep bringing back the the conversation. see how she feel about it. After 6 month's watch IR swinger porn with her, talk about that etc.
My hubby and I are swingers so the connection was made pretty quick, but most women dont like swinging, let alone IR swinging.cuckolding.
lovesblkcock
New Member
I'm just as bad. The only thing that keeps me from thinking about her filled with black cock is if I'm thinking about getting it myself.
depravedfan
Well-Known Member
Im obsessed about it as well but my wife has no clue and i cant imagine how i would possibly bring it up with her,
Nellie
Active Member
Well Fellas, I'm late to this party but I'm as well to speak to this topic as any other. Ms dunacouple, I contend, has posted the most essential and concise truth in IR swinging - how does *SHE feel about it. I can only elaborate on her most astute analysis. * SHE = wife, gf, companion, escort, ...
ANY so called man by definition is submissive if he would willingly permit his wife to fuck another man. Much more so if he's excited and orgasmic at the mere thought of it. If you are bi, to any extent, would it turn her on or repulse her? If repulsed will she use it to humiliate you while she puts your nose in it so to speak? Do you think that's something SHE would enjoy? Personally I believe there is a sweet streak in some of us white men that respond well to BBC spiced marriages, but that may not be your girls kink. If not, would she be open to it to please you?
She may be concerned you'll turn into a full time black lovin sissy and turned out by your new Daddy ;D
If she would refuse to participate to the extent of leaving you then the last thing I'd do is have a secret burning desire that consumes your being and diverts attention from her. Remember, she must desire this, but careful...it's dynamite :-* please excuse any rambling, perhaps together we can make some flow charts LULZ
Have a great weekend all, be safe.
ANY so called man by definition is submissive if he would willingly permit his wife to fuck another man. Much more so if he's excited and orgasmic at the mere thought of it. If you are bi, to any extent, would it turn her on or repulse her? If repulsed will she use it to humiliate you while she puts your nose in it so to speak? Do you think that's something SHE would enjoy? Personally I believe there is a sweet streak in some of us white men that respond well to BBC spiced marriages, but that may not be your girls kink. If not, would she be open to it to please you?
She may be concerned you'll turn into a full time black lovin sissy and turned out by your new Daddy ;D
If she would refuse to participate to the extent of leaving you then the last thing I'd do is have a secret burning desire that consumes your being and diverts attention from her. Remember, she must desire this, but careful...it's dynamite :-* please excuse any rambling, perhaps together we can make some flow charts LULZ
Have a great weekend all, be safe.
Zagg said:
I, on the other hand, am married to a dominant white female that has had Black and Asian lovers in the past and has a child (grown and gone) by a Black Man. She is quite aware of my fantasies and sometimes indulges me by telling me about her "indiscretions" with her Black lovers (invented alas) while masturbating me.
Sometimes she tells me about her real past with her lovers, but those memories really aren't all that hot.Anyway, for now she has no desire to be with anyone other than me, but is fully aware that she has the freedom to do so should she wish so long as she does so safely.
will
Zagg
Zagg is IR obsessed.
You're a lucky, lucky man, will.
willsrvu said:Zagg said:
I, on the other hand, am married to a dominant white female that has had Black and Asian lovers in the past and has a child (grown and gone) by a Black Man. She is quite aware of my fantasies and sometimes indulges me by telling me about her "indiscretions" with her Black lovers (invented alas) while masturbating me.
Anyway, for now she has no desire to be with anyone other than me, but is fully aware that she has the freedom to do so should she wish so long as she does so safely.
will
Zagg said:
I know, Zagg, believe me, I know!
She has told me that she would cuckold me if that is what I really wanted, but that she has no real desire to do so at this time. Note the last 3 words!
When ever we discuss it, which is usually when she sees someone that she thinks I might like as her bull, I tell her we only go there if it is what she wants to do and that I don't want her doing anything she isn't 100% comfortable with. Clearly, if she is looking for someone that pleases me, she isn't into doing it for herself, which makes it pointless.
Besides, the type of guy I envision as a bull (large, slightly tough, slightly arrogant, masculine, sort of like a younger me but bigger and Black like Samuel L Jackson, Richard Roundtree or Laurence Fishburne back in their prime- oh hell, even now! ) isn't really the type of guy she is generally attracted to like Mathew McConaughey, Johnny Depp, Antonio Bandaras, Jamie Foxx & Denzel. She prefers men that she sees as more gentle, less macho as she prefers to be the dominant in the relationship. Like I tell her, what makes her happy is what makes me happy, if we never go there, that's fine, but if we do it has to be for her pleasure.
She also feeds my fantasies regarding Black Women- I have standing permission to hook up with Beyonce or Halle Berry whenever one of them wants me! ;D
Oh! There's the phone. Might be Halle, gotta go!
will
Zagg
Zagg is IR obsessed.
I hope that it was Halle, Will, and that you gave it a good seeing to.
willsrvu said:Zagg said:
I know, Zagg, believe me, I know!
She has told me that she would cuckold me if that is what I really wanted, but that she has no real desire to do so at this time. Note the last 3 words!
When ever we discuss it, which is usually when she sees someone that she thinks I might like as her bull, I tell her we only go there if it is what she wants to do and that I don't want her doing anything she isn't 100% comfortable with. Clearly, if she is looking for someone that pleases me, she isn't into doing it for herself, which makes it pointless.
Besides, the type of guy I envision as a bull (large, slightly tough, slightly arrogant, masculine, sort of like a younger me but bigger and Black like Samuel L Jackson, Richard Roundtree or Laurence Fishburne back in their prime- oh hell, even now! ) isn't really the type of guy she is generally attracted to like Mathew McConaughey, Johnny Depp, Antonio Bandaras, Jamie Foxx & Denzel. She prefers men that she sees as more gentle, less macho as she prefers to be the dominant in the relationship. Like I tell her, what makes her happy is what makes me happy, if we never go there, that's fine, but if we do it has to be for her pleasure.
She also feeds my fantasies regarding Black Women- I have standing permission to hook up with Beyonce or Halle Berry whenever one of them wants me! ;D
Oh! There's the phone. Might be Halle, gotta go!
will
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