Ladies!!! How big is Too Big?????

sonasty

sonasty

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I am an "average" BBC coming in at 9 inches fully erect. Most women wont let me pound them (I love to pound) and if they do, they experience pain during and/or after the fact. My question is how big is too big for you? Have you ever turned one down because of the size? Whats too big for anal? Do tell...
 
Good question, sonasty. Size is one of the perennial questions in the IR world. I'm certainly interested in what the ladies here have to say.
 
There's no such thing as too big. I've never, nor will I ever, turn down a big cock. I love the feeling of being filled and stretched beyond what I think I can take. The biggest one I've had was about 9" and as big around as a soda can. Yes, I even took him anally! And I LOOOVE being pounded! The harder you pound, the more I cum! :)
 
nice question ??? jeje but i m have one time one men with a dick 8.5 inch and hurts me much ,,,,,first ,,then was great ,,,,,i really don t know ,,,,if i can take a dick more big of that ,,,,,kisses
 
I have had a thick 10, the one that got me hooked on big blk cocks! My dream is 12 inches even if I cannot take it all I want it.. Other things about blk cocks I love are uncut and veins.. The person that the big cock hangs from should be nice too.
 
To be honest it was the fear of being hurt by those huge cocks that made me such a late starter in the lifestyle, something that I regret now but I am trying to make up for lost time!
Physically, we can of course accomodate almost anything up us with enough practice (ever seen childbirth - what cums in is nothing compared to what comes out!).
My first encounter with a Black cock was almost by accident - a blind date with my girlfriend and her Black guy.
I felt a bit sorry for my date and the fact that I was all hot and bothered by dancing with Him all nite, made me decide to give Him some hand relief.
This turned into a BJ and at that point I was so wet that we both knew it was going to get shoved inside me.
As all girls know, the key is to relax and use lubricant if required - and try not to pass out with the pleasure if you can ::)

To use a well worn phrase, ''once you go niggah, you'll always want biggah''!
 
sonasty, it's really interesting that to u, ur 9" dick is "average." to us whitebois, that is one big muthafuckin dick!!!

i'm sure those huge, thick black dicks like urs put a little fear into a white girl at first, but i'm also sure that u won't quit -- whether it's slamming her pussy, pounding her ass, or ramming her throat. sooner or later she'll give in to the power of BBC.

extra points if u leave ur load behind ;)
 
Bigger is always better, but I've never taken a really huge cock in my ass. I'm a bit scared too. I do love them in my pussy tho, so fun to feel one poking you in the cervix with each thrust!
 
It is something I've wondered about. Having never experienced anything larger than an "average white" 6" one I find this discussion interesting. I do have to admit I've never measured one so the 6" one my husband claims may not even be accurate. Tonya's explanation does alleviate some of the concern about whether I could handle something much bigger, but her suggestion to just relax may be difficult seeing something like that coming at you. i would wonder after experiencing something bigger like that is it different going back to an average husband? Not psychologically, I imagine everyone deals with that the way that works best for them, but physically. I've never had kids so I don't know how things recover after something like that but I imagine eventually things would change. Just curious.
 
Hi ShyWife!
If you have serious concerns may I suggest you consult a doctor.
As a rule of thumb, you will snap back into shape quite quickly, sometimes I'm amazed myself after some of the monsters I have had up me!
There are exercises you can do to tighten up if you feel the need.
But the question is why would you want to go back to an average husband after experiencing superior sex?
I wouldn't worry about it if I was you, even after feasting on prime beef you can still enjoy a MacDonald's occasionally if there's nothing else around.
However in saying that, I'm a little more demanding with my diet these days . . . :p
 
Hi Tonya. Thanks for your advice, you seem like a great mentor. Maybe we should start an "Ask Tonya" thread (I know, who has time, but I appreciate your feedback). I guess I'm more curious than worried, since I had never thought about giving up my McDonald's. You ask why go back to an average husband, and I think you are just referring to sex, so do you think the husbands just learn to live with it and accept their reduced role?

So it appears the consensus is the bigger the better. I have to admit sonasty's 9 inches intimidates me, anally it would terrify me. And while the size thing was a component of my black fantasy I really hadn't given much thought to what if it's too big, an interesting dilemma. But it sounds like these concerns can all be overcome with practice & experience.
 
Some women like pain and/or sensation of being stretched by a big dick.....That being said, when first dealing with a cock larger than you normally deal with it helps to A. Relax!!!! (Cant be stressed enough) and B. tell your partner to be gentle and go slow. Lubrication is important too. Lastly, you cant get used to a big dick unless you have repeat encounters......
 
Hey Shy_Wife, glad to be of help.
I actually wrote a white girl's guide to going Black some time ago and posted it here, should be around somewhere.
Let me know if you need me to mail it to you.
As for husbands learning to live with their reduced role, most guys already know deep down that their time is up and most are still in denial.

Sonasty gets it with his post, but he's not entirely correct when he says most women like the pain/sensation of being stretched.
The truth is all women yearn for that feeling, it's in our genes.
It's only the initial fear of the unknown that puts women off, something which is not helped by tons of pics on the net of women apparently in pain when getting fucked by a big Black one.
If you bois really want to see your girls to go Black, try showing them the more artistic, romantic IR kissing photos first.
 
Boy do I feel inadequate now. So the obvious next question from the whiteboi's perspective is how small is too small? But I anticipate the answer is if it's white, who cares?

I also think an 'Ask Tonya' thread would be interesting, and I hope more women here look to Tonya as a mentor.

tonyafox said:
Sonasty gets it with his post, but he's not entirely correct when he says most women like the pain/sensation of being stretched.
The truth is all women yearn for that feeling, it's in our genes.
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sonasty said:
I am an "average" BBC coming in at 9 inches fully erect. Most women wont let me pound them (I love to pound) and if they do, they experience pain during and/or after the fact. My question is how big is too big for you? Have you ever turned one down because of the size? Whats too big for anal? Do tell...
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I've never turned down oral sex because of size. I have turned down LOTS of anal size, because of being too damn think. I don't need stitches thank you. As far as normal intercourse, haven't yet, but if some guy ever pops up with one of those porno movie dicks, I'll be GONE. If I wanted something the size of my arm down there, I'd have a baby, or somebody's real arm. Neither has ever happened, and (probably never will). I can't say never for sure, as a few things that I said I would never do, I tried at least once...lol.
 
I hear you MistyBlack.
It's no secret among the guys I go with that I have few limits to what I'll do, but one of them is anal.
Tried it and absolutely don't like it and the size of a Black guy's cock makes it even worse so I make it very clear that anal is not on the menu thank you very much.
Although guys are initially disappointed, they soon forget as I always make up for it in other ways ;)
An older friend of mine loves anal, but won't give oral, so go figure, each to her own!

The golden rule is if you don't like something, don't do it, despite how much they beg, LOLZ!
 
Absolutely, smolder! Tonya, there's a real need to be filled in that regard.

smolder said:
I also think an 'Ask Tonya' thread would be interesting, and I hope more women here look to Tonya as a mentor.
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Love to some day Zagg, but these days I spend most of my spare time getting my needs filled ::)
In saying that, I always take the time to reply to anyone that emails me . . . .
 
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