gussie said:
Last night I watched the investigation channel and it had an episode about swing clubs near military bases and the the wife and her lover ended up killing the husband. It was pretty descriptive, and stated that Black men were considered "GOLD" in the swing world. I know the story was a tragedy but my wife and I have done it for years and and only had one problem of one man who got out of hand.
I can't believe they just now found out BBC was GOLD, maybe one of them are on this site ;D
I will be re-watching it again as soon as it comes on.
I have to admit that when I first meet people in this business, I start sizing them up immediately to try to get a handle on exactly what I'm dealing with. I'm a pretty good judge of people I think, and if I get ANY feeling at all that something is "off", I'm out. Always in a public place first . . . for everybody's safety. Do they seem to have it "together"? Is this something that they BOTH really want to do?
And, I don't have time for and am not interested in dealing with anybody's jealousies, insecurities, etc. I met a couple once, and it turns out that they were actually going through all kinds of marital problems. So, one night the wife calls me up CRYING and stuff (I had not fucked her). She calls me up crying because she and her husband had been fighting . . . she wanted to see me. She wanted to get away from her husband to get with a black man, Well, I didn't want any part of it! No way!
I'm not here to get in between two people or to have to take on a chic's emotional issues (or the man's either for that matter). That's what the husband (or the wife) is there for! If they can't handle it together, then go see a marriage counselor or some shit. But leave TND out of it! The other thing is we all know that there are all kinds of crazies out there. Is a white boy gonna get so jealous seein' a black hunchin' off on his hot wife that he decides to stab a black in the back??? A black needs to check motherfuckers out before he decides to get naked with 'um!
I remember one time I met this couple. Forget exactly where we were, but they were sitting in their car. I pulled up in mine at the designated time and got out. They invited me to get in theirs in the back seat so we could talk, but I declined with a, "Well, I think I'll just stand out here." They may have been a little offended at first, but I didn't know them people! And damn if I'm gonna jump in their car! White folks might be the KKK and be done sliced a black's scrotum up!
Yeeaahhhh . . . ya gotta use some common sense . . . but sometimes I do worry about how the white boy may react. Especially when his nose is REALLY gettin' rubbed into it good. And nobody can do that better than his own best girl! I'll never forget one time . . . was barebackin' a very attractive white girl, and she was just
goin' OFF on her husband . . . who was sittin' their in a chair with his dick in his hand. Told him she didn't really love him and that she had never orgasmed with him, even though she had birthed two of his kids! She told him she loved ME . . . a black man . . . and wished she could start over again with a black (I had her shaking and trembling in orgasm the whole night long one right after the other!).
So anyway, I'll never, ever forget the look on that white boy's face . . . I made sure me and his wife turned our faces in his direction so that he could see us . . . the expression of total and complete sexual satisfaction and fulfillment on both of our faces . . . then I closed my eyes with a big ear-to-ear grin on my face (rubbin' the white boy's nose in it!) . . . then I opened my eyes again to see his reaction . . . the HURT . . . the obvious JEALOUSY . . . and a white boy boner in his hand just a jackin' away! But I was like, "Man I gotta watch this white boy . . . I gotta watch this white boy . . . he's obviously hurting emomtionally . . . this motherfucker just might try to kill a black!" Hell, like "Massah" killed "Mede" in Mandingo!
We spoke again on the phone . . . white boy even called me up himself saying that he and the wife wanted me to start "dating" her . . . we never did get together again though. As much as I would have liked to at the time, it was probably for the best. I often wonder if they are still together and married as husband and wife. I would think that when a white man witnesses for himself with his very own eyes what sexual pleasure and joy a black can bring to his wife or girlfriend, and on a level that he the white man cannot take her to . . . then . . . then I would have to believe that can and would potentially damage the marriage irreversibly. You would have to have two people who are extremely committed to each other . . . through thick (black dick) and thin . . . in order for the marriage to survive. But, I'm not interested in breaking up anybody's relationship. And I definitely don't want to get killed behind this shit!