Just aw this thread and so I'll reply out of courtesy!
I wouldn't say I'm one of those cruel cuckoldresses by any means, but what started out as an experiment is now a way of life.
Several years into my marriage, things were getting a little stale and I missed the excitement of my single days.
Hubby found my secret diary one day while he was fixing some cupboards and told me how it turned him on reading about all the crazy stuff I used to get up to when I was single.
It was then he suggested that he'd love to see me sucking off a stranger providing we were out of town.
That's all it took basically, he did actually say it was getting out of hand and that we should cool it for a while but I told him very firmly that it was he who opened Pandora's Box and now that I was hooked on the excitement that it was too late to stop it now.
I guess he knew it as well.
Most men want to see their wives with other guys but are afraid that someone they know will find out I guess.
I reassured hubby that there's no way I'd leave him for another man as long as we continue the arrangement we have.
Now he looks forward to my date nights, helps prepare me and sometimes chooses the outfits for me.
As long as he feels a part of the deal, it's not a problem, and to tell him every juicy detail when I get home of course.
I think for the lifestyle to work, you have to involve him rather than try to keep it a secret.
He will eventually realize what's going on as he will no doubt wonder why you're so happy and satisfied all the time.
Puffed up and sore pussy lips are also a dead giveaway to an observant husband as well, so best to come clean and be up front about it.
Women are highly sexual creatures and we are not designed to be sexually restricted.
Emotionally I belong to hubby, but sexually is another matter :-*
I hope this answers your question, if noy, please feel free to ask questions ;D
