Are there any drag bars in your area? Go dressed as a boy to size the place up, then go dressed as a female. Nobody will say anything.
Visit any black clubs as a boy and see what is going on. Chances are there won't be any drag action in a straight bar (but you never know) but if you have any gay clubs they are usually drag friendlier.
Visit your local Craigslist. BE CAREFUL ON CRAIGSLIST. See here:
phoenix.craigslist.org/i/personals?category=cas
and phoenix.craigslist.org/i/personals?category=msr
and look under t4m and m4t sections.
You are not going to be able to serve any N I G G E R S until you get out of the house and start meeting people.
Keep us informed. You will be fine.
